Monday 21 July 2014

Soul mates?

I never really believed in the concept of a 'soul mate' the idea that someone out there is a perfect match for you. I still feel this way, however I do feel like I have found someone that could constitute the use of the term 'soul mate'. This person however isn't the love of my life, the person I am going to marry or even fall for. The soul mate that I was taught about when I was younger is not the one I found. I met someone who gets me, compliments my personality, debates with me, tells me im wrong and goes along with my stupid ideas because, well its fun being around each other. The label of our relationship is 'best friend' I thought that I had known what a best friend was until my 'best soul friend' walked into my life. When I personally think of a best friend I think of someone who has been around for years and years. However in the last year I have realised that time has no meaning because we can spend hours on the phone, watching movies and just generally having a giggle.
Birthday fun!! 

I see this girl in my life for the tough and exciting years in my future and I look forward to getting older and making more memories for us to reminisce about when we are grey and bitter. She is the one person I can tell everything to without fear of judgement and assurance of a warm shoulder to lean on. My soul mate wasn't what I expected but she sure is what I need.